Sunday, October 31, 2010

Super Fun Solid Starting on Sunday!




After talking last night to friends (thanks Meade and Geigles!)  I decided that Asher is probably ready for a little bit of solids, even if his mommy isn't.  He was sleeping through the night, and  now is waking up hungry, he's grabbing for food, he's mouthing like he wants to eat while he watches us eat, and he just seems like he wants more after nursing.  I have been fighting it, but I thought I would try a little rice today.
It went well!  I have no idea how much he ate since most of it ended up everywhere but his mouth but still!  I kinda felt like I was feeding him poison seeing as how until today the only thing to go in his belly has been breastmilk and baby Tylenol, but that's a "me" issue.  :)  Oh, I should also say that I've been in so much denial about starting solids that I haven't gotten a high chair yet.  If you have one that you would like to give/sell to us please let me know!
For your viewing pleasure:

Rice.


pre breastmilk addition


Scared Mama.......  (note Asher holding the bowl.  "Gimme!!")












:)









And Happy Halloween!!


Thursday, October 28, 2010

How I'm able to spend $35 a week on groceries.

I've always been a coupon nut--I blame it on my mother.  I was raised with the belief to never pay full price for ANYTHING and I follow it.  Money is tight these days for everyone so I thought I would write down some of my "rules".

My title is true--I budget and spend $35 a week on groceries.  I should say that every 6 weeks or so I spend about $75 to stock up on stuff (examples: flour, sugar, etc.) but I think that still probably puts us below the average.  (If I may brag, my big claim to fame is that in October of last year I ended up spending $20 on groceries for the entire month.  I remind Tyler of this whenever I go over budget.)  So, here it is for your reading pleasure.


#1:  Get over being ashamed to shop with a calculator.  I mean it--get over it!  I literally shop with my list, a pen, and a calculator.  Nothing goes into my cart without being entered in the calculator, and the price written on my list next to the item.  I was never able to keep an accurate total in my head, and I've noticed that writing stuff down on my list forces me to stick to it.  I was so embarassed at first, but I promise you as soon as you start carrying a calculator with you, you will see tons of other people doing it.  Promise.

#2:  Read ALL in-store ads before you go shopping and plan you meals around what's on sale.  If you're on a tight budget, just tell youself you don't have the luxury to buy whatever you want--you are at the mercy of whatever the Fred Meyer/Safeway/Alberton's gods deem is on on sale.  If pork is cheap--make a couple of meals out of it!  Ground beef on sale?  Chili it is!  Don't plan too many meals in too far advance--change as the sales change. 

#3:  Know your seasonal produce.  You will seriously save a ton of money.  Knowing whether produce is on sale because it is in season or because it is about to go bad is huge, too.

#4:  Decide which items are worth spending money or worth saving.  For example, I don't buy produce that is on sale (unless it is seasonal) because it tends to go bad like a day later.  Ground beef, on the other hand, can be really cheap.  I believe the all canned goods are created equal, but eggs are not.

#5:  Clip coupons, but don't use them right away.  One of the big no-no's when it comes to coupon clipping is buying things you don't need at full price, just because you have a $0.35 off coupon.  I've noticed that most of the time the stores don't put items on sale the week manufacturers send out coupons on items for this very reason.  Save the coupons, and only use them when you need the item and it is already on sale.  This is how you get free groceries.

#6: Don't forget online coupons!!  You can load coupons on your store card, but then also use a coupon from the paper.  You just doubled your coupon!  And if you have a double coupon, you just tripled the deal!  Score!

#7:  Always have a few cheap, backup meals in your mind.  If you are reaching the end of your grocery budget and need a few more meals, always have something cheap in mind (salad, chili, etc.) to fall back on.  Another:  I;ve noticed that we really only use milk for cereal.  So, if I am running out of room in my budget, I can skip buying both milk and cereal and instead but a thing of oatmeal which is usually cheaper than a gallon of milk and lasts forever.

#8:  Ah, the power of beans.   I have learned that most  meals can be stretched enough to have a ton of leftovers if you just throw in a can of beans.  Try it, you'll see.

#9:  See food for what it is: fuel.  Yes, I love to cook and I am married to the best baker I've ever known.  However, it is not a priority to us to always have elaborate and fancy meals worth bragging about on facebook.  Food is yummy, but it is what it is.  We made the decision that we would rather spend money on other things than food.  Once we made this decision, buying rice and beans instead of steak became a lot easier.  Buying fancy food just didn't seem like a need anymore, which leads me to my final rule:

#10:  Decide what are wants and what are needs.  For us, fresh produce is a need and wine (after much prayer, consideration, meditation, and therapy I can say) is a want.  We don't have money for everything we want, so we buy the needs and if there is leftover the wants get in there.

Anywho, I hope this helps!  If not, feel free to make fun of my coupon-clipping ways. 

Friday, October 15, 2010

Hi, my name is Brittany and I am addicted to Tea Tree Oil.

                                                    
If you haven't already started using Tea Tree Oil for everything you must do it now!  It is a natural oil that apparently makes unicorns levitate among other things.  It cleans, disinfects, deodorizes in a safe and natural way.  I think what I love most about it is I can clean while I have Asher in the Ergo.  Here is what I've done with it so far:
-Mixed a couple of drops with water and a splash of vinegar to disinfect.  I put this in a spray bottle and cleaned the bathrooms and kitchen as well as Asher's diaper pail.  They all smell so yummy (minty smell), and I literally used three drops for the entire bottle.
-Mixed 1 tsp. with a GALLON of water to disinfect my hardwood and bathroom floors.  That's right folks--my floors are both disinfected but also not full of chemicals so my baby can be on them. 
-Dipped a q-tip in some and rubbed it on the bottom of the front door where I think we've been letting spiders in the house.  According to what I read online, it will keep creepy crawlys from coming back.

Other things to do with it:
-Put it on scrapes/cuts.  It will soothe and heal
-Use it to deoderize diaper pails.  And, yes, it is cloth diaper safe (!)
-Make a cloth wipe solution
-dillute with water and put on diaper rash
-cures ringworm
-kills yeast


I bought mine here: http://www.soap.com/product/productdetail.aspx?productid=48286  They are on sale 2 for 1, and if you use the coupon code CheprPleez you get 20% off and free shipping if you spend $49 at soap.com or diapers.com.  I got a box of household products at soap.com for super cheap when I bought it.  Anywho, just wanted to share in the joy!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Disinfecting the healthy, cheap, and easy way!

Countertops, bathrooms and laundry OH MY! Want to disinfect and clean without breaking the bank or breaking out the harsh chemicals? Try this: Take a Glass Sugar Pourer (approx $4-5), fill 2/3 with baking soda (maybe $1 worth), 1/3 with Borax (a few pennies worth), then add approx 5-8 drops of Tea Tree Oil (a few pennies worth). Shake shake shake, shake shake shake, shake that Cleaner!

I love to take this to my kitchen for my Countertops and even my wood cuttingboards and granite topped island. Shake a little on and use a wet washcloth to rub it in. The borax will clean and freshen, the baking soda will act as a mild scrubber and odor eliminater, the tea tree oil will kill bacteria. What's not to love? I let it sit for about 10 minutes then squeeze a little warm water over it and wipe it away.

Don't stop there, take it anywhere you need to kill bacteria or eliminate odors like your bathroom, door handles, switchplates, etc.

It's cheap, it's healthy and it's really not that hard!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Lessons Learned in Cloth Diapering: Newborn

So I spent most of my pregnancy researching cloth diapers.  I knew I wanted to cloth diaper even before I was preggo--good for my baby, good for the environment, cute, and CHEAP.  What I had decided to do was use infant sized prefolds and covers for the first couple of months, and when Asher was around 12 pounds start doing one-size diapers.   This is what my sister-in-law did, this is what most moms do.
Didn't work for me.  The prefolds were so bulky his legs would stick straight up in the air--forget getting clothes over them!  I did find that newborn sized diapers worked well, but are pretty expensive (at least $10 each). 
What I ended up doing was keep a couple of "cute" cloth that was tiny sized, but sell most of the others and just do disposable.  Seriously, the newborn sized diapers at target are $5 a box and have 50 diapers.  Maybe I'll try again next time.






Monday, October 4, 2010

Such a sad month.

This has been a strange month.  Not long ago a friend's four month baby passed away from SIDS, and yesterday my beautiful cousin's husband passed away after falling from his bicycle.  They have three little kids who won't have their daddy as they grow up.  I feel sick.  I hate that I live in a world where innocent babies and daddies die for no good reason.  I hate it, and I don't get it.